The problem with judgemental people.

Everyone tends to be judgemental from times to times. We all tend to know such people. Being judgemental and biased individuals by making prenouncements based on so little information. The false generalization tend to give it away. Most people know that being judgemental is an unattractive trait. If you look around, you'll find judgemental people are disliked and often avoided.

How is this so, people tend to make impressions on people. Such as " That guy always curses therefore he is stupid and should be avoided " . Most of us have been victims of such generalization. "His from that certain school, therefore he is an ah beng " Personal experience shows that people tend to judge me on how i dress, what school I'm from and how i talk. We than get the feeling that a certain person is judgemental and judge them back. When a person judges us, all we can do is just smile and believe that the person is judging cause he or she is insecure herself. None of us can help forming opinions of other people. We all make judgements constantly . She's hot therefore she is likely to be a jual mahal kind of person. She is ugly and fat therefore she should be ultra friendly when fact is it can be the total opposite.

When you learn not to be judgemental, you'll find that you will be personally happy and find that certain happyness that eluded you long ago. Lookout for your own " therefores " and you will notice all of this .

So are you a judgemental person? Do you judge people on your way of life, their beliefs, their habits and treats? Search deep down inside.





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